A few weeks ago he and I matched on tinder. I had stalked him on fb before so I already knew who he was, but he had never seen or knew of me at all. I already had a crush on him.. We sent casual messages back and forth before I asked him if he'd like to talk somewhere else to which he responded he would.
Then he disappeared off tinder so I tracked him on fb and added him, and he accepted. He apologized and said his phone crashed and how he's using a tablet, so his tinder was deleted in the process. I believe him. I asked him if he'd like to go out sometime straight up. I hate messaging online with someone before I meet them or know them.. Small talk is not my thing. He had responded he definitely would. We tried to plan a day but due to his reasons and he we busy, it never happened but he apologized to me. I then messaged back that it's alright and I would still really like to meet him, whenever he is less busy. And due to his work, I truly believe he is busy. And I only had asked him out a week ago.
Am I being too strong or forceful? Or is it just about right to show I am interested in meeting him? I don't message him when he doesn't respond, I don't get after him like he should free up his time.. I just want to meet the dude. Is this okay?
- Nah you're good67%(2)75%(6)Vote80%(4)
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