My boyfriend and I, want to go on a date this weekend, but I'm nervous to ask. My father is VERY strict who I go out with. I have never been on a date before, so this should be my first time. I'm nervous to ask my father about it. I remember a few years back I told him about my first kiss, and he didn't get mad at all. I'm scared of asking, because its my first date, and I don't want to embarrasse myself. I'm not even sure if it's official date, becuase we might have things planned. But should I ask now. Or should I give time to think about it. Im really nervous.
Just be honest and tell him straight up. You already told him about the first kiss, and he seemed to be ok with that, so probably he's not gonna be mad about this. Plus, lying will only make things worse, cause you want him to trust you, trust that you're old enough to go on dates, and by lying you'll get the opposite effect. So just go straight up to him, and tell him.
Ask now- it'll give him the most time to think about it and consider it calmly, and he's far more likely to refuse or take issue with it if you tell him on the day itself. Gauging from his reaction when you told him about your first kiss, he should be fine with your first date. Just don't expect him not to come and pick you up- he's unlikely to let your boyfriend take you back to his house afterwards...
You should ask: you're gonna have to soon anyway. It doesn't matter if it's not official: you can just ask your dad whether you can go out with him. Tell him about your boyfriend but make sure to tell him everything that you know he'll like (don't lie though). Unless he asks try to leave out the parts he won't like. That might help him allow you to go. Just make sure you don't lie or else he won't trust you.