I met a guy online who I talked to for a few weeks, our communication slowly diminished until recently when he asked if I needed extra cash. He said his boss (34 years old, I'm 21) needed a date for their promotion dinner (which will take place in an upscale hotel down south from 6pm to 11pm) and I'll get paid if I happen to go.
It was good money, twice as what I'm making monthly in my current job. He gave me a brief about what I should expect, (holding of hands, arms around the shoulders, waist, and probably kisses too) I said that sounds good but I won't go beyond light smooches, even if his boss offers higher pay.
He also mentioned that his boss' secretary will get me a dress to wear for the evening. Does this sound legitimate to you? Anyone here ever had experience being an arm candy?
3mo Okay, stop arguing people. I appreciate all of your honest answers, it helped me a lot. As much as I wanted to push through with this, I've finally decided not to go (I got scared lol) answers and opinions are still welcome tho. Thank you!
Let's be real: sex WILL be desired and probably expected, no matter what anyone tells you. I'm not saying he'll be furious if you say "no" (but some guys would be), but at the very least, he'll be very disappointed.
This is also EXACTLY how a lot of call-girls become call-girls... they are told "no, it's just social, and what you want to do beyond that is up to you", but they know full well that you'll be offered a big hunk of money, and most desperate women won't be able to turn down a wad of cash. Then, you've done it once, so it will be much easier to do it again, for less cash or with a less attractive customer, etc.
Don't have any illusions of what's really expected, even if you DO turn him down and maintain your limits.
Pack a fingernail trimmer with a pullaround filer. Rig your high heels with hidden spikes. Refuse alcohol. Take up filing as a hobby to avoid suspicion. Remember outer sides of knees and armpits are weak spots. If things get fishy, you know what to do. Secure an exit before anyone can bring a knife to the fight.
But you can always ask yourself this: What is it that you value more? Your self integrity OR the money and power of somebody else? If you get what I mean. To me it sounds like a desperate situation and waving around with money and expensive fancy things to get somebody as a relationship material.
I'd be on my guard 24/7.
Final note: Sex is almost inevitable and I expect it to happen. Your call.
Do it. And if you have chemistry sleep with him. The money is just a side bonus.
Hells no dont do it! doesn't matters how much money it is. You need to respect yourself. You can't go with a diff mind set like" ok i won't do this even if he pays me more blablabla" you need to either go full out or not go at all!
Women are such sloots
Be careful. Being someone's social escort can lead to something even though you have led strict lines on what you will and will not do for the money you are going to get, sometimes you end up with what you didn't bargain for. Word of advice, never leave a drink unattended. If you do, get a fresh one everytime you do. This will avoid you getting drugged. I'm sure you know this, but from someone who has worked these events it is always worth saying to the women who do what you are planning.
The difference between an escort and prostitute is sex. With a prostitute sex is part of the deal. An escort has no obligation to provide anything more than companionship and sex is NOT part of an escort's services. With a prostitute you're paying her for sex and an escort you're paying her for her time. Escort and prostitute are not interchangeable words. I have experience as both an escort and a prostitute. I personally prefer being a prostitute.
I doubt you'd get away with not having sex with him. Id be very surprised if he doesn't expect that at the end of the night cause that's what an escort does. So if you're ok with having sex go for it but if it sounds too good to be true - it's is.