I met a guy online who I talked to for a few weeks, our communication slowly diminished until recently when he asked if I needed extra cash. He said his boss (34 years old, I'm 21) needed a date for their promotion dinner (which will take place in an upscale hotel down south from 6pm to 11pm) and I'll get paid if I happen to go.
It was good money, twice as what I'm making monthly in my current job. He gave me a brief about what I should expect, (holding of hands, arms around the shoulders, waist, and probably kisses too) I said that sounds good but I won't go beyond light smooches, even if his boss offers higher pay.
He also mentioned that his boss' secretary will get me a dress to wear for the evening. Does this sound legitimate to you? Anyone here ever had experience being an arm candy?
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Let's be real: sex WILL be desired and probably expected, no matter what anyone tells you. I'm not saying he'll be furious if you say "no" (but some guys would be), but at the very least, he'll be very disappointed.
This is also EXACTLY how a lot of call-girls become call-girls... they are told "no, it's just social, and what you want to do beyond that is up to you", but they know full well that you'll be offered a big hunk of money, and most desperate women won't be able to turn down a wad of cash. Then, you've done it once, so it will be much easier to do it again, for less cash or with a less attractive customer, etc.
Don't have any illusions of what's really expected, even if you DO turn him down and maintain your limits.5