Have been seeing a guy for over a month, three great dates and on the third date we kissed. He told me at the end of the third date that he has some family issues that he needs to attend to and so he knows he will be quite distant during this week. I understood fully and he sent me a few snaps the day after that date, but it is now the fourth day and i am going crazy on the inside because i haven't heard from him. I am doing my own thing like seeing my friends and working but i haven't been able to stop thinking about him for more than a minute, and its making me feel silly and like an idiot. I understand that family matters can be intense but is the fact that he warned me a sign that i should wait? or is the fact i haven't heard from him in days a sign i should move on. After we kissed i noticed on his instagram any trace of his ex were deleted and he has apparently told his friends and sister about me. My gut is telling me that he is telling the truth about the family thing but i can't help feeling like he will disappear pretty soon.
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Its called love, your body and mind just want to spend every single minute, second, with him, or at least, want to know how he is. Its quite frustrating.
But I would let him handle the things he need to do. Trust is really important in a future relationship. Just wait for him untill the weekend and then send him a message, how he has been, if it worked out etc.