So I met a girl on Ocupied a few days ago, I'm mid 20 and she's 19.
Any suggestions what to do on the first date? As I said it's my first date ever so I have no clue.
How should I dress? I'm not the guy that likes to wear formal stuff, usually just a shirt and jeans.
Should I make bodycontact on the first date or later?
According to her profile she's a virgin and don't wan't sex on the first few dates, which is good cause I'm a virgin too and don't want it too early either, but I guess it's not a bad idea to take condoms with me (and try them, so I know how to put them on) just in case?
When it comes to sex I don't know if I should tell her, that I'm a virgin too. According to her profile she preferes less experienced guys but I'm not 19 or 20 anymore.
And if she still has it, is there any way to break her hymen without hurting her? I mean in theory I think I know how to please a girl, but I never thought I'd ever be someones first, so I don't have much knowledge about it.
Most Helpful Girl
Take condoms just in case.0
Most Helpful Guy
Sex could happen on the first date. She's a virgin and wants to lose it fast. (Weird she would have that on her profile, this to me screams that she's very open to sex)
Wear something simple but not over the top, button shirt some dress pants. Break the touch barrier very early on. Find an excuse to touch her elbow, this is where you want to touch her first. If she touches you back let things flow naturally. Be calm, confident, listen what she has to say, and ask her questions. Focus on having a good time and you'll do fine my man.0
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