When is it good to ask a girl you are dating what her intentions are?

We met online and have been on 3 dates so far. I am def into her, but she does not know this. I try to schedule a date with her once a week if she is not busy traveling for work. We are hopefully going to see each other this weekend. I wanted to make sure that we are on the same page and looking for the same thing. When and how should I bring this up? Or is it still to early and should I just let things play out?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Depends on how often you're seeing each other and depends on the people involved cause everyone different but date 4 or 5 I would be like, I enjoy spending time with you and see if they're having fun with you. About two months in I would say you can ask about maybe making it exclusive but again depends on the people and your schedules etc.

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    • Thank you for MHO :)

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    • That's great :D I hope things go well for you then

    • If you get a chance, I posted another question. You seem to have good advice.

What Girls Said 2

  • Around 6 weeks. That way, she's got time to get to know you and start to like you.

    Play it out just a little longer. If you really like her, she'll be work the little extra weight. :P

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  • Maybe just give it a little bit more time. You may just get your answer without ever even having to ask. 😊

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What Guys Said 4

  • I prefer to just let things unfold personally -- tends to maximize the odds that the feelings are mutual. I don't end up going into relationships so much looking for something though, I just let it ride out and see what happens.

    If we love each other's company and miss each other all the time, it's pretty easy to be exclusive.

    Might seem a little reckless and haphazard, but I think you could end up jeopardizing whatever you have if you get too serious too soon and want a commitment too soon.

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  • You are in danger of freaking her out - Let it develop naturally before declaring you love her in the first few dates - Lots of girls see that as a red flag, someone who wants a relationship more than a relationship with her specifically. They think that the identity of the girl is almost a second string priority.

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  • Probably on the first or second date. You don't want to date for weeks without knowing exactly why she is.

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  • Month 2.

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