My new boyfriend and i are very happy together. But multiple people ask me why i am with him. They all say that i'm much better looking then him, which isn't a complete lie. We are from two different groups at school. He's in band, and is kinda nerdy and i party a lot. But i don't believe in looks being that important, I'm focused more on personality. He makes me laugh a lot and is very caring, that's why i am with him. But why do you think that everyone around us is so shocked that we are a couple? Do you think looks really do matter in a realtionship?
Most Helpful Guy
Only question you have to ask yourself, is "Are you and your boyfriend happy?", if yes nothing else matters.3
Most Helpful Girl
Looks matter to a certain extent, at least as far as initial attraction is concerned. I couldn't date someone I'm not physically attracted to. However, looks certainly aren't everything and definitely not the most important part of a relationship. Personality is what makes me STAY in a relationship.
Regarding your personal situation, who cares what other people think? It's your relationship and you're the one dating him, not those other people. So as long as you're happy with him, that's all that matters. :)0