A lot of my guys are giving me shit because I keep going back to the same girl who's dumped me a total of 3 times now.
She's not a bitch or anything, in fact she's the best girl in the whole world. I just have a condition (combat PTSD) that's made me into a huge asshole at times and caused her to walk (run) away. Plus she's always been a very free spirited girl that's hard to tie down anyway (something I love about her), so any shit and it's too easy for her to be gone.
She says she still loves me and would definitely want to be with me if I work on things. Everyone else says I'm just signing up for more of the same and to grow a pair. This shit starts to wear on a man's ego after a while. I would normally never try this hard for a girl. I just want to be with her more than anything but am nervous she'll hose me again.
Most Helpful Girl
"dumped me 3 times"
"best girl in the whole world"
For the love of Arceus, where is your dignity?1
Most Helpful Guy
Ok coming from another Vet that deals with the same stuff.. She does not sound like a healthy choice.. I had to come to the conclusion that a dysfunctional relationship actually made me a lot worse.. I mean if you have someone that will be there and keep the situation stable then great but having a flighty girlfriend who always bolts when times get tough is not the healthy choice.0