What's turned you off in a partner before
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If I am in bed with her, we're past the most obvious 'issues'.
In bed, the BIG turn off, is when she pretends that she doesn't like masturbating, and is just reluctant to show me how to touch her, so I can make her feel something even more AMAZING, touching her the same way, doing the same, but it is someone ELSE, and the erotic sensations of another person, touching, that way, makes the sensations how many times better?
Later, I expect a little insecurity, with her 'naughty secrets' and 'fantasies', but when she finally shares some, they aren't anything bizarre, or crazy, and pretty normal, but fun!!
Her fears were unfounded, and playing her fantasies can be a lot of fun!!
Anxiety, and fear of trusting, and relaxing, is probably the biggest Mood-killer and Turn-off!!0