My sister introduced me to the business and she is used as a way to pay for college and now medical school while still being able to maintain a certain lifestyle. Our parents can't afford college so its up to us girls to make our own way though our parents have no clue. Over the couple of years I've made a good bit of money and have my own car, after college I hope to have enough for a down payment on my own home and hopefully will have started in a good career.
Last year, I met a woman online and that led quickly to meeting for a date. I thought she was a nice lady and was interested in a second date but she made a comment about having some history that might scare me away.
I have access to police and court records so I checked and she had a lengthy record for alcohol problems, suspended driver's license, DUI, etc. and four arrests for soliciting for prostitution. Instead of "confronting" her with the information I waited for her to tell me.
I felt a mix of emotions about the situation. This was something that I probably would have avoided if I had known before I met her. On the other hand, I know that I should forgive people their past mistakes.
The reasons many guys don't want to date or marry a prostitute are
1. a prostitute probably had a very casual and uncaring attitude about sex; 2. a prostitute probably has so much more sexual experience that she will make the guy feel incompetent in that area; 3. a guy may not be able to satisfy her; 4. a prostitute may have a problem settling down to one guy for a LTR; and 5. if she doesn't feel that being a prostitute was a mistake, she is more likely to cheat on a partner in a LTR.
You may have some comeback to each of these points but it doesn't matter. I'm just telling you what guys think. Most guys will never do that; they'll just say "no, not interested" and you'll never know why they turned you down. And some guys will feel just the opposite; they'll think that it's in your past and you are likely to be an uninhibited partner who is interested in doing whatever it takes to please a man..
I decided that I would date her for awhile and try to discern what her present attitude was about a sexual relationship and how she felt about her past. She felt that her past life was a mistake and she was not anxious to quickly launch into a sexual relationship.
We broke up for unrelated reasons. She was always busy or tired and never had the time or energy to be with me, so I broke up with her.
I hope this helps you to understand. The first issue is deciding whether you tell a partner (I think you must) and at what point you have that discussion (You must be sure that you tell him before he discovers it on his own, and you will never know when a guy might do a background check on you. Even if you have no criminal record, he will be asking about previous jobs. If you tell lies to cover up the past, it will all fall apart.)
personally I would not want someone with such history. I understand the horrible obstacles in life but that is not the only way to make it through. I would feel really Srry For the girl if she was smart and good looking and really just needed money but using her body as a product... no no not even for dating never mind marriage. what if you found a guy that did the same stuff in his life and fucked dozens and dozens of girls for money... would you want that man (fuck boy) to be your boyfriend or even worse... husband😱?
I'd date but not marry one. I dont believe in marriage anyway and an ex escort wouldn't pursuade me to either that's for sure. I don't know why some men be rejecting the idea of it since your average western woman these days has had more partners than a escort. At least a escort or ex one is honest about it.
Not interested in dating someone that has sex for money, especially if they are still employed!
I'm sure you're a nice lady and all but they've done studies that indicate women who have more sex partners are more likely to be depressed, more likely to get divorced, less likely to have a stable relationship.
Socially, I'm not sure what would happen if people found out I'm dating a hooker but I am sure that the reaction would not be positive.
I'm gonna make an assumption that since you want to have sex with men you probably aren't very religious, which is a deal breaker itself for me. Not being able to see eye to eye in a relationship will only cause problems.
Seems like the odds would be stacked against us right from the start, I don't want to enter a marriage knowing it will probably fail.
by the way, majority of men wouldn't pay for sex. Men who do are seen as losers.
I have had a couple of porn stars who wanted to go out with me. I said no.
On the other hand, most any woman would say yes to sex for money if she believes it is a genuine offer, she isn't afraid (of getting caught, of catching STD or pregnancy, etc), and it is enough money. So, in summary, all women are prostitutes to some degree or other.
I probably wouldn't have an LTR with a professional escort simply because my type is is the sweet type. I have gone out with a girl once who later did a porn video. If everyone cared about his potential wife having been a prostitute, there wouldn't be many marriages in Bangkok.
There's a lot to consider. Is she clean, is she still tight, is she hot, has the experience fucked up her views on life, sex, and relationships? Then there's the whole compatibility thing. At the very least, I'd fuck her a few dozen times.
Would you marry a man who had sex with every last one of your female friends and any sisters you may have? Let's say the last of your friends he slept with 2 years ago. So he's no longer sleeping with any of them. Would you marry him? They didn't pay him. He just wanted sex and they all wanted to sleep with him too, so they made it happen.
sorry there is no better way to say this it doesn't matter how beautiful the outer look for a garbage can it doesn't matter if the garbage can in a low wealth house of a castle each garbage can will have the same garbage