I'm like 5'5'' (1.65m in my place) and 21. There is obviously no way for me to approach a woman or event be friends with her. I actually can't be friends with guys either because they beat me up, unless they are illegal immigrants. I am handsome and in good shape but people keep telling me im not man and should commit suicide (that's also because i don't drink and abstain from other supposedly manly stuff, but i don't think it would help if i started). Should i stop trying and maybe have myself castrated to feel better about it?
Most Helpful Girl
No, you shouldn't.
I don't think you can do anything to increase your height. What you can do is improve your sense of security and your self confidence so that you're comfortable with how you look.
The issue is that the word kid is definitely an emotional soft spot for you. And that's understandable.
However those words hurt you because you have a soft spot there. You have to make an attempt to render the words powerless. And that will happen when you're confident. You can get confident by improving other aspects of you.
Do you have a skill? Can you write? Do you play an instrument? Are you a smooth talker?
If you search within you, you'll find something that makes you happy. When you delve into that, that will give you the self comfort and the innate happiness to get you to be comfortable with yourself.
And guess what? It's weird. But when you're comfortable with your body, the world follows.
Wishing you the best of luck.0
Most Helpful Guy
The best route is to get rich and play women. I'm not the most attractive guy, but i realize women like confidence and security in a person. So i act confidently which is easier to do when you don't like the girl. I worked hard and have a good income and career and once girls catch a whiff of my status, they act like they love me... i have sex and move on. simple0