My boyfriend is 22 answer I'm 21. We have been dating a little over with years now.
I have slept over before, but some of those times were that my boyfriend never asked for permission because he knew the answer would be no. I have gone out on his family outings to places, but I had to sleep in one room with the females and the males slept in the other. And one time, surprisingly, me and him were able to share a bed at his grandmother's house due to the room arrangement problems.
And so me and my boyfriend had planned this idea of me staying over for the night at his house since us two were hanging out with friends. It would of been convenient. I asked him to please ask his father for permission in text and his dad pretty much said no. Now, I feel a little weird because I don't want his dad to think of me in a different light or be upset that my boyfriend asked or that there's some sort of problem. I don't know, am I overthinking it? I've always tried to get close to the family, and it feels like I'm not accepted yet.
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I find that he doesn't bother to ask his father for permission very wrong. He is in his father's house. It's not that your not accepted, its the fact that it's his father's HOUSE, not his, and he's being very disrespectful. It's very obvious as to why his dad says no. Because you two are bound to or going to have sex, and he doesn't want it in his home. Your boyfriend is making you look very bad and his father has the right to scream about it. And no, your age has nothing to do with it either. Your age doesn't make you an adult. It's the fact that he lack respect for his father. So anything that his dad is upset about, blame on your boyfriend. I would not tolerate that in my house either.1
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