if met your boyfriend's brother before your were dating. You started dating and you referred to your boyfriend as your boyfriend while his brother was around. His brother goes "is she really your girlfriend" and your boyfriend goes "sure". The brother gets really excited but that's it. Maybe I'm over analyzing or maybe it has nothing to do with me, but I felt kinda insulted as "sure" as an answer. Maybe it's because he was drinking or because he was just talking to his brother. idk
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Don't worry too much about it. They're brothers, so they'll be able to say a lot to each other in very little words. The brother will probably have a pretty good impression of your relationship just by the way your boyfriend said 'sure'. For example if he said it as if it were self-evident, it might (it's important to keep in mind there's no universal 'code' to understand such communication, it's based on shared conversations and experiences that go back years) mean he's confident everything is going well and he doesn't expect to break up with you any time soon. It's an awesome way to talk about your feelings without having to admit you have any. It's a special kind of insanity that all men share lol.
Anyway if the brother got excited when he heard that answer, I'm sure it's nothing bad. You shouldn't worry he's taking you for granted or anything like that based on this event. It's likely it never even occured to him that you might feel hurt when he gave that answer (the drinking is probably to blame for that), and had he known he might have said something more considerate.0