I hung out with a guy. We went bowling and his bet was if he won he gets to take me on a date. He won. But I asked to take him out next time. He says it's a date then. He was very nice. He held my purse for me, tied up my food after we ate and everything. Texted that he got home and said he really enjoyed my company. So I'm going out on my very first date. I've never been on one. Usually I just *hung* out with a guy. I'm nervous because I don't want to put all my eggs in a basket like I usually do. When I talk with a guy I focus on them. That's it. But people these days have so many options and I don't want it to be one sided. Usually that's how all mine turn out to be. I'm trying to stay low with this one but I don't know if he's genuine or not. Do you usually just go in blind with these things? I don't want to get my hopes up. I got burned a lot in the past with others. This one seems too good to be true.
- You go in blindly12% (1)62% (5)38% (6)Vote
- He's definitely interested88% (7)38% (3)62% (10)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
You don't. You never really do.0
Most Helpful Girl
He sounds like he likes you.
Adding to this, if the guy you’re talking to starts saying things like ''we should check that out,'' or we need to try that one day soon,'' it shows that he acknowledges that there’s something between you two, for both of you to be considered as one entity.
As mentioned in the last point, if he says things like ''you should check that out'' he’s categorizing you as an individual entity, whereas ''we'' signifies a couple.
Wishing you the best of luck.0