Just a general question, I'm not really looking to date right now.
So yeah, I talk quite a lot. Not the boring, run-of-the-mill-stuff, because I can keep a conversation going with witty and interesting topics. But I have noticed people tend to get annoyed sometimes because they feel I talk too much, and go into too much detail. I do agree, but the reason I do this, is to ensure that there is no ambiguity by 'shortening' what I say. I struggle to convey things 'in short', and unless I do go into detail, I risk the other person misunderstanding what I say. Not just this, I am known to keep the atmosphere lively with the way I talk as well.
This doesn't happen too often, but sometimes I fail to realise that I should probably cut down on the chatter when the other person is busy, or otherwise in some kind of stress. And I really do NOT want to annoy anyone. I have been told that the stuff I talk about is usually relevant and intellectual, or at the very least, humorous.
So tell me, is it a deal-breaker for women if the man seems to talk too much? I don't know, I'm a bit paranoid about this. When I do decide to get back into the dating scene (after having sorted out my life and career), I do not want my chatty nature to turn women away from me.
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