Most recently my boyfriend and I hungout after a couple of days due to his family problems that he didn't want to share nor did he initiate texting me. After those couple of days I text him saying I'm understanding when it comes to the problem but he could at least take 5 minutes to text me. he responded with "I will see you tom. I have a lot going on". We then went for dinner and I went on his phone when he wasn't in the room and I found a conversation he had with a girl that he liked and she liked him before. They had a passed. And he started the convo after 2 years of not talking to her going something like this "Its been a long time... i know we haven't talked a lot... but you are still the same girl to me." then she proceeded asking how i was doing and he said it was a long story. Then he proceeded asking her to hangout and catch up alone. I proceeded to cry when he came out stating my feelings and he got mad at me for going on his phone and said "you did this to yourself" i asked him if he cared about me the same way I did and he said "i don't fucking know" furthermore i also found out the family problem that was going on and it wasn't that serious so he was mad at me for that but seemed to not care at all about my feelings and the convo he had with that girl. I apologized to him for snooping on his phone saying i just wish you could share things etc., he responded with; goodnight ttyl. The next morning I texted him my true feelings about that whole convo and said that i deserve and apology as well and he didn't reply its been 4 days. i also called him and no reply. its like he has completely given up on us. He's stated I'm not his priority. and always says there's something going on in his life but never shares. he calls me selfish and immature for wanting to at least have talked to him for those couple of days that he didn't even contact me.
Does he want to do anything with me?
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