Ok so my fiance and i are both 24 years old and his 22 year old sister and I both graduate from college in August on the same exact day crazy right? Well naturally it was a very tough decision for my fiance to choose whose to go to (with travel it is impossible to go to both) he chose mine because me being the women he is going to marry and all. His mom is really upset that he is going to my college graduation over his own sisters as she puts it. I'm very confused why she is so bothered i think naturally it makes the most sense to go to the persons grad whose ring you are wearing and who you are going to settle down with we have been together 2 years his sis is 22 and we live close to his mom. His sister completely understands and we told her we will definitely make it up to her by taking her out to a really nice restaurant just the 3 of us but nooo that isn't good enough for his mom. I could understand his mom's POV if this was a new relationship or something but in my opinion of you been with your SO a long time and you know you wanna be with them the rest of your life you choose them for stuff like this. I feel like his mom is being completely unreasonable especially considering his sister is completely ok with it. Also i think what is bothering me is that his mom seems to not give any shits if he misses my graduation and how his own fiance would feel if her own fiance isn't there but i guess to his mom my feelings dont matter. Thoughts? Are we wrong here?
Whose grad to go to?
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I don't know. I understand the Mom's view. If he had posted on this site asking if he should go to his fiance's or sister graduation I would have told him to go to his sisters. Family first. Although you are his fiance you are still on steps to being actual family. Plus I'm sure the sister would want her entire family there as would you.0
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