I fall into the crazy about someone phase quite fast. If I spend a fair bit of time around someone it generally means in crazy about them but I'm sure that's not the case for all women but I certainly wouldn't go on more than one date with someone I wasn't really into.
Girls are naturally skeptical of guys. You have to remember that attractive girls are hit on and even stalked constantly by guys. Over time this makes us very wary of guys and what they want. Even if I think highly of a guy, I'm always afraid of getting involved with a controlling jerk who's going to try to harm me. There are guys who last out violently just because a girl broke up with him. Doesn't make girls feel very open or quick to fall for guys, that's for sure.
I have trust issues, so as soon I know I can trust you or that I don't see any red flags pop up, I can start to allow myself to feel something for you. We're always cautious about creeps and stalkers and weirdos. Sometimes feelings come fast. You have to look for clues that she may be into you or wants to do more. I don't know how far you've gone with her, but you should at least show her that you're into her. Good luck!
I fell for my husband in a matter of weeks. I actually hid my true feelings from him because I did not want to scare him off. It took a long time for him to get to where I was in our relationship but I was patient
Generally, depends on each gurl. some of us girls (including me) will develop feelings fast, but not act on it/like it or say anything. And ill just deal with it with sadness etc or whatever i may feel along with those feelings lol. Girls really dont trust guys easily.
Yeah takes me about 3 months on average but I am obviously fond of the person prior to falling from them. Maybe don't hide your feelings as such, I did this once before and 5 months down the line I had to confess because I couldn't pretend I didn't any more and he said wow, well you don't show it. But because I hadn't, he protected himself from falling for me and we both (or I) ruined the honeymoon period. Just go with the flow, take it steady but never hide your true self!
It doesn't take me long at all to develop feelings once I like you I really like you hard it's hard for me to express them because of my fear of the other person not feeling the same way about me but 4 dates means she likes you
I actually develop feelings pretty damn fast. It would definitely take me less than four dates to know whether I'm into the guy. I don't understand why you wouldn't want her to know it though, you're 28, not 12.
It depends on the person, but in my opinion I don't think it takes long at all. It takes me a short while to get a persons vibe and spending time with them I can already tell whether I feel something for them or not. Also the fact that you have already gone on four dates is a good sign. Just give it more time and you be able to tell whether she has developed feeling for you :).
no lol, pretty much every girl I know is like me in that girls can fall in love with a guy instantly... its usually way quicker for a girl than it is for a guy to develop feelings! so chances are she feels the same if not more:) go tell her! shout it from the rooftops! before she thinks you're not interested bc she's probably already analysing why you haven't told her already:)
I can't speak for every girl out there, but it took me a while to develop feelings for my guy. Told him about it and he's been madly in love with me since. Just be honest about your feelings for her. Chances are she might be into you too! Just take a leap of faith and hope for the best! Good luck :-)
:) I think everyone is different, but for me, what I know for sure and early on, is when I don't want someone..