Regardless of who broke up with who, why would someone talk really bad about their ex? Almost as if they border line hate them? It seems as if one is over the break up then move on. Whats the sense in talking poorly about who you were with?
Because you broke up for a reason sometimes because someone cheated, someone was abusive, was a criminal, a douchebag, it could be anything. I only talk bad about some of my exes, the bad ones if someone else brings them up. I dont have time to think or worry about the asshats I've dated.
while I'm normally agreeing with the statement that bad mouthing a ex is stupid (especially over petty shit ) things like what the other guy explained or being cheated on, are perfect reasons to Harbor hate for a ex
People like to complain and focus on the bad times, one of my exes used me and tore me heart but she was still a pretty good person despite that and there was still good times we had but i dont hate her for how it ended, that wouldn't be right if i did
While I am indifferent to my ex now and don't typically bad mouth anyone, my ex used to beat the crap out of me, on a regular basis etc and then would try and make it my fault. So yes. If he gets brought up in conversation or my new partner ever asks about him, I am not going to say nice things.
Because they are still bitter about the relationship and what happened during the relationship. It's worse if it was a sexual relationship and they gave everything up to their ex's. They feel they are un-deservering of it, but in my opinion they have no right to complain if what they did was their own choice. Nobody can't force you to do something you don't want to do. It takes two to tango. Forgive, learn from your mistakes, and move on.