I kinda have trust issues and I do believe my boyfriend of 7 months but then again I question it and I know I can ask which I am definitely will but first I just want to see what people on here say. So my boyfriend is having surgery today and I am stuck at work sadly :(. He has a hernia on both sides which is close to his testicles and he said that we can't have sex until October and I was doing my search it said it only take up two 2 weeks of healing when the hernia is close to testicles and he doesn't go back to work until end of August. So my question is if doing my search saying 2 weeks of healing but why would he say until October we can have sex? Could he lying? because I don't see why but I just need Need advice please
Most Helpful Guy
Ask a Dr and get his or her advice. hernias can be damaging and some things can take time to heal. but to heal 3 months I think that's a little too much time to heal. weird that he says that. just ask ask a Dr for advice and if the doc says 2 weeks bring it up to your boyfriend and ask him why oct?0
Most Helpful Girl
WHy would he lie to get out of sex? Most guys lie to *get* sex lol. I've never had a guy turn down the chance at sex with me.
Surgery is a big deal. He may need time just to feel normal again after having a doctor slice him open like that. I think you're just overthinking this.0