Don't care, if we're dating, im dating her not her insta followers.
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I say A she's awesome, cause those type of people are real and genuine and usually good hearted... sadly social media makes people superficial and vain and most people go on there to get validation. if someone doesn't have social media theyre real and keep their life private.
It might be a little different here in Japan, but that whole kind of trend of selfies and posting random thoughts and where you are all the time isn't so common here.
Social media is often used for people who are real friends in real life to keep in contact and arrange to meet (gives a central place of organization to organize, say, a birthday party among dozens of people).
So it's hard to tell for me. I tend to like girls who are very social and have their own large group of friends, so no social media here (Japan) might imply that she's kind of a recluse.
A part of me would love that and I always desired a girl who has little to no social media presence. But another part would be suspicious. Social media is such a norm this day in age the truth is that most people have at least one and if a girl didn't I might assume she's hiding something (s). Too bad that this is something that people my generation can get hung up over.
I don't think the lack of presence of social media indicates much of anything, really. I mean, you can tell a bit about someone from what they post on social media, but not having it doesn't really tell you anything other than that they might not be very technologically inclined people.