We have been dating a couple months and he knows I have a two year old daughter. Tonight at dinner he told me that he doesn't like kids and does not want to get married or have kids until he is in his 30s (he's 22). Should I be avoiding this guy, or keep dating him to see if he changes him mind?
Most Helpful Guy
i hate kids too, but that doesn't mean that I don't want to have kids. I definitely want kids of my own, and I'll love them from the bottom of my heart. But I just hate annoying little random kids.1
Most Helpful Girl
he likes you a lot, tried with you, but realized he is not ready to take on that role. you have to decide... next time, take your time with guys before introdceing to your daughter. at lease he is honest and told you the truth.
unless you are not looking for anything serious...
i dated a guy, he met my kids after 5 dates in, he ended. i am okay with that.
met another guy waited 2 - 3 months, talked about my situation. he was okay and was very good with my kids, helped me a lot and was there for my kids as well. didn't work out and i wish him well...
this is what we have to go through being a single mom...