I am quite surprised how guys let amazing girls go away just because they (girls) refuse to have sex with them the first three days or two weeks. If a girl is intelligent, funny, good looking and in general entertaining person, why a guy would dump her just because she asks to be patient regarding sex? I just want to know, all of you guys are putting so much weight in sex that you prefer to let good girls go instead of wait until they feel comfortable? Like there's nothing else in a relationship besides sex? Other details don't count?
It's funny that you think men are "putting so much weight in sex". If sex really doesn't matter to women so much, then this whole problem could be solved by having a non-monogamous relationship until the woman ready to have sex.
The truth is, girls who are not ready for sex are, by definition, not ready for relationships. It's as simple as that.
To me, sex takes a backseat to personal and intellectual intimacy. I'm fine with waiting until she's comfortable and ready. Well, as long as it's within a reasonable amount of time (like two or three months). After too long I'd be concerned about the state of our relationship.
Guys who break off a relationship because they can't wait a few weeks are probably doing the girl a favor.
Sex is a huge part to me if the sex is bad then it just won't work out in my opinion. But I don't mind waiting for it I actually I prefer it. the longer you wait the stronger the desire is and it's nice to be comfortable around them