It seems as if there are many mixed feelings as to whether a female or male should be the one to ask out or make initiative. I've always believed that I should be genuine and go afte what I want so asking guys out hasn't been too hard for me. I'm just wondering if any females out there have gotten good results when doing so? And by pursuing first I mean asking the guy out first, approaching the guy first, maybe initiating conversations first, etc. I've noticed with shyer guys I need to initiate more as well, so I'm wondering if anyone has experience with shy OR less experienced guys as well.
- Yes, I have49% (29)
- No, I have never approached a guy22% (13)
- No, I haven't gotten good results29% (17)
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I see no reason why not to, I think all that gender rules are dumb
I go for what I want and if it works works if not not, I have no regrets nor I waste my time2