So, I've been dating this guy online for over 2 years. We have intentions to meet up very soon and visit in person (we would have sooner but we're both medical students and our schedules are hectic.) We stay in touch over text and Skype. We click on a very deep level and we have a lot in common and understand each other well. He's the first person I've cared about on this level of compassion. He's 25 and I'm 21, if that helps anything. Well, yesterday, his ex contacted both of us and rehashed how he hurt her by cheating on her. This was over 3 years ago. I still love him and I feel like this was something that I needed to know - he wouldn't have told me most likely in fear that I'd leave. I know he's being loyal to me. We trust each other. Is this something that I should end it over? I feel like it's not, but I also feel like I could be blinded since I am in love with him. Thank you.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, I would. Cheating is something I would never tolerate. And if a person had done it before, that means they are capable of doing it again.0
Most Helpful Girl
No, I firmly believe that people can change, whether it's because they've matured, or met the right person, or really feel remorseful from that mistake in their past. If you want to, you can talk to him about it, ask whatever questions you need to reassure yourself, he should be open to talking at least, but I don't think this is something to leave him over. 3 years is a long time and a lot of things change so I'm more than willing to give him a chance on this one.1