Can he start to "like" her or is this impossible?
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It's not easy.
Last summer, I was with a girl that I really liked. Things ended. To get her out of my mind, I started seeing a chick that I wouldn't have bothered with otherwise (she was 31 and had kids). She's probably the best relationship I ever had, certainly in the Top 3. And I just couldn't bring myself to really give any fucks. I mean yeah, why would I, when she's post-Wall and has kids. But for her age, she's still pretty, and as I said, I liked being with her. She's chill, didn't expect shit from me, didn't try to make demands on my time, etc. When she was thinking of ending things, I just kinda shrugged and said "You obviously have to do what you think is best for you". Then continued seeing/banging her for 6 more weeks. Haha. She's the only ex I still talk to. We were texting a little while ago, in fact.
I wasn't ready to get involved with anyone after the girl before her, but I did anyway. And it had a definite effect on that relationship.1