Me and one of my ex broke up over a year ago, and only a recently we started talking again. But I am 100% certain we are not getting back together. I met this guy last month, and we only been on one date. And we haven't talked about being exclusive, as we have just met, and I barely know him. But I want to know him better. I really liked our date. When I call he is always so busy so we only seem to text, but he keeps saying he really likes me. But since I barely know him, I don't feel close and I wish we could talk more or see each other more. Something always comes up during our planned second dates, like his mom had to get surgery or he has to work , but he says he really wants to see me again. Should I feel awful for having sex with ex a few weeks after our first date? Should I tell the new guy and stop talking to said ex? Should I stop making an effort with new guy, since we barely talk and can't seem to get a second date rolling? I am confused.
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It sounds like to me you just don't have your priority straightened out. Because if you did, no matter how tempting it maybe. You never would have slept with your ex. You need to figure out where your values are, because once he finds out, IF he does, he is going to be the one to stop dating with you. And you can't blame him if he did. At this point, it's all left on your conscious to answer if you should or shouldn't. It is not for us to answer for you. You made that decision, now it's your choice.1