I seem to only fall for guys who live in totally different states then me.
Guys, Do you think I have a problem?
What Guys Said 2
I take it you know these guys from the internet or only talk online?
It often happens that limited contact like that makes it much easier to fall for someone, as people tend to 'fill in the blanks' unconsciously. I have done this too in long distance relationships I have had in the past.
Essentially, since you don't know (well) how they are in person, you assume things. I, for instance, assumed stuff like: "oh I bet she is is very confident and sexy in the way she moves" or "she probably is in a happy mood all the time!"
In other words, they may seem (much) better than they actually are in person. It reminds me of the saying "distance makes the heart grow fonder".1
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