If you liked two girls, and they both had good personalities, and you connected to both emotionally, but you had more chemistry with one, and she was better looking, and you decided to go for the other one because it felt safer, do you regret it?
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I wouldn't really say it works like that, for me at least anyways. For me looks come first, they're the first impression. I'm instantly going to put a girl who's physically attractive in a higher status in my mind and therefore if she connects with me, she'll be the one I go with. The girl who's less attractive is going to have to connect with me on a deeper level to spark my attraction to a level higher than the girl who's good looking. It really depends on the circumstances, there's lots of cases where I've loved a girl who wasn't the kind of girl I'd point out on the street as being incredibly beautiful *at first*, but as I've gotten to know her I've started to fall for her to the point that even if by societies standards she wasn't considerably attractive, in my standards she was the most beautiful girl in the world.
Initial Impression: Superficial, mostly based on looks.
Long-term emotional impression: Based on personality, experiences, connections etc.0