So i just moved to the states and I've noticed that sex is kind-off a big deal here. there's this 20 year old guy who i find really handsome asked me out and i said no. Im so worried that he would expect me to have sex with him and i don't know how to explain to him my morals and why i wanna stay a virgin till marriage. I don't even know how he would react to that.
Okay, first any smart guy would admire your stand. Second don't be afraid to let guys know where you stand, you set the bar high and there are men who will rise to the responsibility or they will remain little boys. Where are you from?
Anything is possible! I've heard of several cases where the woman was lucky enough to find a man who loved her and respected her wishes enough to abstain from sex until their wedding night. I think it just really takes an evolved, selfless type of man who is willing to be disciplined over his flesh. Unfortunately, a lot of modern day American guys don't put in that self-work and they don't strive to be disciplined within their sexual side so it can be hard to find.
If this is important to you and means something to you, then do not compromise it for anyone. The guys who want to pressure you or disregard your wishes simply aren't the guys for you. Express how you feel with dignity and confidence. If he doesn't want to accept it then let him go.
I'm 25+ and I'm still a virgin waiting for the right guy. and people think i'm crazy. I'm not ugly or anything there are lots of guys who've wanted to date me but i'd turn them down because I didn't want to play games. I want a serious relationship.
The right guy will. The right guy will admire you for being woman enough to stick to your morals.
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