Read on and you'll realize why the title's a bit poorly phrased,
So I go to an all boys high school and I'm not very social at all outside of the school, and recently I've been wanting a special someone in my life. Problem is I have no idea where to meet that someone without looking creepy or desparate. What's a good way to find friends and potential dates outside of school?
And if by some miracle one of you lives in Vancouver and wants to chat a bit, feel free!
3mo Update: Going a bit off topic, is there like a specific way to meet more people of a certain type, i. e. with shared interests?
Go to places where other people your age hang around (shops/malls, amusement parks, etc) with a good friend of yours if you're not comfortable by yourself. It's not creepy at all to strike a conversation with someone when there's something to talk about (compliment their shoes, ask what school they go to because they look familiar (even if they don't)
I would say maybe chat with people online. I do and I make friends that are guys and it is not creepy are desparate. I would also say maybe try talking to people at your school such as classmates during lunch and try to get to know them. Talk to your family members and make friends with your cousins friends and maybe u may meet a lucky lady. U have to put yourself out there more by being more social. I know it is hard but you got to to do it. Other than that I don't know what to say.