He said in his voice mail he had a hectic week and asked me to go out the next evening. I'm was heart broken when he didn't call earlier and figured he wasn't into me. I've been manipulated in the past and don't care to have that happen again. I'm not sure how to handle this. Any advice or recommendations?
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all relationships are the same. girls treat me the same way. you are like me...I don't play games. I don't think people should not call so that someone else thinks they are not interested, when really they are and are just playing "hard to get". It's bullcrap and it's such a waste of time. If someone likes someone else they just call them because they like them and want to spend time with them.
I have had good luck by telling girls this in the beginning of a relationship. so that they know what I want. RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD NOT BE ABOUT MIND GAMES. tell him this. lay down what you think. Say, "If you like me, call me more." If he actually likes you he will, if not, f*** him.2