I've never had a boyfriend or even talked to a guy in any romantic way. Never held hands with anyone, kissed, or had any sexual contact with one either. I'm 18 and a freshman in college. What do you think and why?
Most Helpful Guy
I never judge anyone negatively for never being in any relationships or had never had sex or slept with anyone before, if they don't want to be in a relationship or realize that it just won't work for them, then so be it. No every single person on the planet are ever absolutely guaranteed that they will ever be in any relationships and have a partner or spouse in their entire lifetime.
You don't have to be in a relationships for really any reason at all other than unless you really truly want a long term committed relationship with somebody.
Besides, relationships are not guaranteed to last forever and provide any sort of real happiness anyway, and the same goes for sex, otherwise how do you explain why some people get so addicted to sex and sleep around? Or even cheat and go behind their partner's back?
I doubt they are fully and truly happy with their lives and themselves if they think and believe that having lots of sex with lots of people would actually make them happy or feel happy all just because it "felt good". People will do what they do but I think they are just deluded and unaware of it and lying to themselves that they think what they do will make them happy but they continue to pursue the same thing to no end into this endless cycle of inner emptiness.1
Most Helpful Girl
You are still young, keep calm.
Maybe in college you will find someone, who knows? 😏2