So i promised my to send my boyfriend some nudes. But he made me a bit mad at some point and ask at the wrong moment for them later. I said no and he was so pissed he didn't even come online though he was on his phone. I got even angrier and now he's really pissed and keeps saying not to text him because he hoped for some nudes. But he asked at really inappropriate moment and even though i promised it i think that its my body and still my decision if i feel comfortable enough at that moment. Who is wrong about that me or him?
Most Helpful Guy
^ I have to state that so I do not get modern day " feminists " on my tail.
First of all you shouldn't send nudes in this world. Once that image is created and sent that is your body being sent through cyberspace or to his budies. I know because I've been around that stigma. I had idiot friends.
Also if he's going to go into rage mode with you then he's a child.
If he cannot respect you then he does not deserve you. Your future husband is waiting for you out there somewhere on hold while you waste time with this current guy you're with.
May you find TRUE HAPPINESS AND LIVE A BLESSED AND LONG-FULFILLING LIFE WITH YOUR FUTURE FAMILY.6
Most Helpful Girl
Sure, send him some nudes. Send him these nudes:
Shitttt that's hotttt #want #need
Srsly... do something like that. If he has ANY ability to laugh at himself -- which is AN ABSOLUTE MUST in a long-term partner -- then, he'll find it funny as hell (although you might have to explain the joke).
If he gets even more pissystupid, then... eehhhh he ain't worth yr time. Which I strongly suspect is true anyway, but this would just be confirmation.
If he DOES laugh at the joke, then, good... but, you should absolutely continue to tease him. Keep him *wanting*. NEVER just fold. If he doesn't enjoy a fun challenge... get rid of him.
In general, I'm VERY wary of the whole notion of sending nudes (the x-rated kind, not the Too Faced kind). Just way too much chance they'll end up all over the internet.
The way this kid is acting like a spoiled child, that chance is even higher. How old is he, like, nine?
Wait on it. For a good long time.2