Hey people, it already passed like few days on it but I feel humiliated cause what he said during having sexual relationship :( I dont know if its true for me to feel like that, but it just hurts me.
I am from Greece and my boyfriend is Turkish, I love him a lot ! But we sometimes have fights cause of politic reasons between Greece - Turkey and sometimes cause of jeolusy, he doesn't want me to wear too short ''skirts'' thats because he doesn't want other guys to stare at me lol and it makes me mad, but I can't say anything to him he is too aggressive. He doesn't want me to meet with my other guy friends, he punched one of them before :( Whats wrong with this guy?
I met him on my vacation to Instanbul, he was very kind and gentlman, we both liked eachother and he came to Greece for his university. It been like 1.5 years now he is acting like a jerk !
We are spending our summer holiday together at Santorini Island, we were having sex like few days ago, then he said ''Looks like Turkey f... s Greece now'' his comment made me shock and I couldn't say anything to him cause of his rudeness, I feel so sad and hurt right now :( I dont want my relationship to be ruined I still love him, is there any way I can change him? Or what can I say to him about rude comment he did? I am waiting your opinions please, and I dont want that to be repeated thank you.
Most Helpful Guy
He punched one of your guy friends? You know that bit where he was kind and a gentleman? It was an act. His true colours came out when he was put in situations that were a true test of his character. He's disrespectful. He's a dick. He's controlling. He's jealous. He's abusive. He's violent. He's bigoted. He's puerile. He's patriotic and small minded. He's not going to change.
You think you're going to find that sweet line that will make him change his ways? You have rose spectacled glasses on.1
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Most Helpful Girl
@but I can't say anything to him he is too aggressive
@' his comment made me shock and I couldn't say anything to him
You are with someone who does not respect you and with whom you dont respect yourself. you are both treating you like you have no voice.
Why do you allow him to control you and how do you love him if he doesn't respect you?
and no you can't huge him you can demand respect. if he can't dish it up then leave.
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