I was waiting in a line with my boyfriend the other day and there was these two little girls ( around 5 years old) standing in the line and he said " imagine them making out with each other" I said "gross.." but he kept going saying " those two girls are going to get fucked by those two other boys" and he pointed at two little boys the same age. I said " baby, that's really disturbing please don't say that" then he pointed to another small girl being held by her father and she was smiling and he said " She's opening her mouth getting it ready to suck a dick". When I told what he was saying really bothered me he said " I'm just joking! I like to make extreme jokes sometimes". My boyfriend will often call me fat, ugly, stupid, etc. If I ever get upset, he just tells me something like " its a joke baby! It's funny to call you fat because you're not fat at all!" He rarely compliments me. Sometimes he will accidentally hurt me and I'll say " it's ok" and laugh it off and then he will hurt me again in the same way on purpose and expect me to laugh. Is his heart in the right place or is he a creep?
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No, he sounds like a weird mf. These aren't NORMAL jokes, nor are they funny. No one in the world is going to think those "jokes" are funny. Also ESPECIALLY because you said it's disturbing, it's disrespectful that he'll continue when you've made it clear that it makes you uncomfortable. NOT ONLY THAT, he disrespects you by calling you fat, ugly, and stupid. If that's the rapport you guys have with each other then fine, but I'm of the opinion that a guy should never put his girlfriend down like that. And it sounds like you're really not okay with that either because it hurts you. Tell him to grow the fuck up, stop making disgusting, inappropriate, pedophilic jokes, and be more considerate of your feelings. And if he can't do that then maybe you're better off finding someone else. He isn't something I'd put up with.6