Why is it that I see girls in their early twenties dating guys in their late twenties a lot? How much older do you usually date? What age do you usually shoot for?
Most Helpful Girl
Preferably 29 and older.
These are *my* reasons. I cannot and do not speak for anyone else.
Know how to react and handle a woman when she's upset.
More patient and understanding
- I've got a bit of a temper, sometimes
They've been working on their bodies for years, so they understand that my routine and diet is not to be f**ked with.
Already 'played the field' and tasted the rainbow (lmao).
Ready to commit and settle down; not just to hit it and quit it.
Financially responsible and stable (or starting to be). As well as overall responsible
They still act like kids, but know when it's time to be serious
Less likely to run away from a fight/argument.
- They'll sit down and talk it out * * Hot as hell when a man does that.
Usually more thoughtful and caring
- Had one offer to drive 45+ min to bring me soup when I was sick. Same man would pick me up coffee (remembered it after I told him ONCE) on days I didn't get enough sleep.
Egos aren't as fragile as younger men (DOES NOT apply to *all* younger men).
Last one (though there's plenty more) is that they're sexually experienced. They know where they stand on sex. Their limits, what they like, etc.
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Most Helpful Guy
Females are taught that guys their own age lack maturity and stability, so a lot of them go on thinking they're actually mature enough and stable enough to date an older man, when they're usually no more mature than the young guys they have a problem with. It's about novelty for women more than anything I think. Yet what's funny is that they will be offended when a guy likes older women or try to write him off as just wanting sex with an "experienced" woman.
Younger women don't impress me by wanting older men, myself included.3