I Knew this girl from twitter, we've been flirting for so long, then she asked for my number, she told me that she needed help, i called and she told me she has a boyfriend and they just left her for his ex, she was devastated and i tried to calm her down and she asked if we can be friends, we used to call/text/facetime each other 24/7 for 3 months now. At that time i was really sick and most the time sleeping at the hospital (Chronic illness) but i gave her all my time and effort to listen to her bitching about her ex. I gave her a present for her BD just exactly what she wanted. She was On and Off w her ex (mostly off and fighting when they're on) She was so flirty and she always ask me if i would date her! I took the hint but i always says no cause she's not Emotionally stable. Last time we talked her ex called and she kept me on hold so long i got angry, then she just simlpy disappeared from my life! She got back to her ex now and told me she's just busy (i knew they got back from Twitter not her) she said its just temporary but hasn't called in a week now! I called her once said i miss you, and she said i'm with a friend rn, i discovered later she was on a date with him!
DONT TELL ME TO CONFRONT HER. She doesn't like it and once she made fun of her friend who told her why have you chamged and called her "Pathetic"
She used to say any girl would be lucky to date me, she actully suggested we date! She flirts! Why would she do that then leave!
you guys have to know what kind of person i am, i was so lonely before i met her, i'm nerdy, quiet, shy.
and her boyfriend is a bad guy he actully threatened her to kill her! And did harmed her car!
What should i do now? if she call how should i respons and what should i say? I dont wanna be pathatic (i know i am) but not with her please help:(
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Sounds like she is using you only when she needs someone to talk or go to. If she really cared about you, she wouldn't do this to you. Best to just cut her off your life and move on. Plenty of girls out there who deserve the love you can offer.
If she reaches out to you just ignore her or block her. She chose to be with her ex even when he has threatened her.1