Im pretty sure we all meet and see different types of people on a daily basis, sometimes we even work or go to school with different people and we also find some of those people very attractive even when we are in relationships. Before anyone says anything, i am against cheating and we all know its BAD. If you're not happy in the relationship then end it right? But we also have people who are happy for the most part and maybe their significant other is lacking on a few things that aren't making them happy. So, when you meet this attractive people for a split second a thought crosses your mind " i wish i could have sex with this person, i wanna make out with this person, etc etc" and you're so tempted to do something about it but in the end you end up not doing it because you dont wanna hurt your gf/bf.
The question is, have you ever been tempted to cheat? Or has it ever cross your mind to hook up with that person you have been working or gone to school with but you just dont do it in the end cause you're in a relationship?
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah I think it's normal to feel this way that is why we need to have self-control. It happened to me and I still feel super bad about it though I never do anything with him. We shared a lot of things in common, used to have lunch together, and I realized that we got into this comfortable zone and it's unhealthy for me as I am in a relationship. He's single and I know if I ever broke up with my boyfriend he'll be happy.
We worked at the same place and see each other at least 8 hours per day. He's attractive than my boyfriend. I hate it but I've to admit it. Tall, buff, blue eyes, dark hair just wow. I'm a liar if I say I've never thought about having sex with him. Sometimes I feel like shit because I know if my boyfriend ever thinks like this about his female colleague, I'd feel like crap. I'd feel so angry. So I told him everything about how I feel. That we should limit ourselves because I love my SO. He looked unhappy and didn't talk to me for a few weeks >_<
I didn't bother because I know it's for my good. My relationship is more important than him. He seems cool nowadays. I guess he got over it.2
Most Helpful Guy
nah. but then again i have only had few relatiinships and longest was 1.5 years, so...
but id never actually cheat, even if id think about it1