I often hear people talk about how both girls and guys like to date someone "on their level" physically. But how do you know what that is? Or is it even important?
I guess I don't want to feel like I'm "aiming" too high or too low, but I don't really understand how you can really know what either of those things mean.
Most Helpful Girl
I think what they mean by levels is "standards", meaning someone who is maybe the same age, or similar goals, beliefs, and mindset. Like for example, a girl wants a guy who is in college, works, & is the same age as her because then they have mutual interests & understand each other cuz they are on the same level. Compared to someone who is 21 & dating a 41 year old, well if you think about it they are on 2 different levels, like the 41 year old wants kids & to settle down, while 21 year old wants to party & travel. So ask yourself what you want in a girlfriend and what u don't want. This should help you figure what your level is. :) Like u want a girl who is the same age or close & who has similar interests.1
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Most Helpful Guy
A man should aim high because contrary to popular belief, many of the really attractive girls are often more approachable and down to Earth than their average counterparts. My theory why is because they do not realize just how attractive they really are, since most guys are too afraid to approach them with the exception of assholes. This is in stark contrast to average girls who often have an overinflated view of how attractive they are because most guys approach them since they think that they will be easier to woo than super attractive girls.6