Every time I meet a guy from a dating app for some reason they'd say "lets go shopping so I could buy you clothes/whatever you want" and id tell them no because I feel bad and then they would keep saying no don't feel bad and then eventually we'd go and they buy me stuff and I'd feel really bad. Why's that? Is there something wrong with me? Has this ever happened to you and if it has what did you do? They're my age too well maybe 2-3 years older but that's it
Most Helpful Guy
It used to be, when I was closer to your age, that guy friends would question a friend's orientation, if he liked shopping with his Girlfriend. What they didn't consider, is how much fun it can be, because it isn't like they think, "Hold my purse while I change" but rather, "Come in here and help me get this on right, and how does it look?"
I LOVE shopping with my GFs because I get to see so many different sides of her, like when she tries on different things, that really aren't her style, but somehow they just work, and she looks NICE!!
Then there is shopping for shoes, and trying them on, and some women like to tease, and it's fun foreplay for later, getting a little peek, here or there, or being close, helping her zip something up, in the dressing room, KNOWING I'm not supposed to be in there, with her!
Then there is a certain store, with VS as their initials. Just finding her evening's attire, together. Something nice and naughty, but then something soft and comfortable for sleeping. . .
I've never actually offered, and said I would buy them anything. That part does seem a little shady, depending on the guy! My experience was always with someone that I was already calling a girlfriend, and mostly for our own fun.
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Most Helpful Girl
It's called they like you. It happens to people who have a vagina because people with a penis want to see that vagina and are willing to do anything to see it.2