How do you handle it? I'm a minority and I notice a lot of obese girls think they are shooting fish in a barrel when they are around me. I find it a little offensive, I work out about 5-6 days a week, built like an nfl running back with a 34" pants size on top of it. If anything and you really can't condemn someone for it but if I value my appearance I'm going to want someone who does too.
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Most Helpful Girl
Are you black? I know this is going to sound racist, but it's because black guys tend to date chunky women of all races. I have seen lots of chubby white women with fit black men.
I attract all types of races mostly lower class. I've had men with money ask me out too, but meh. Not interested.1
Most Helpful Guy
I've still never had a girlfriend to be honest, but I voted "Yes" because I have noticed this myself.
I live near Latinos, but most of them are illegal immigrants, so I don't have enough interaction with Latinos who speak English to know. I barely come across an Asian, Pacific Islander, or Native American in general. When it comes to Black girls, virtually none of them find me attractive-But that's no surprise, since most Black girls don't tend to be into White guys. However, I do get along with Black girls just fine-They're usually friendly. That takes care of the racial demographics.
Age is another factor, and I'm stuck in an unfortunate situation. Teenage girls in high school tend to like me, since I'm more "mature", and older, but I'm obviously too old (And I'm a teacher-Which is entirely unprofessional). However, I've also noticed women between 30-40 years old find me attractive, and this is probably because this is when women his their sexual prime, and they're less focused on how much money a guy makes. The problem is, women in this age group are married. Unfortunately, women in my own age group (20-29) don't find me attractive at all, and it's mainly because girls that age are superficial gold diggers for the most part. It's hard to even get along with girls in this age range.
For weight, I haven't noticed anything at all-I've had obese women tell me I'm "not their type", and I've also had ultra-thin girls say the same thing. There is no correlation here. The same can be said about religion: No correlation here.
With area location, oddly enough, rural women tend to give me a chance before suburban women (I've lived in the suburbs my entire life), but urban women give me the cold shoulder (I don't know if this is due to race as well).
I could go on, and on with every demographic, but these are the ones which stand out the most to me. It's mainly an age problem with me (Except Black women between 30-40-They just don't find me attractive).0