Right now I'm going through a rough patch.
I have no money and I'm looking for a job but I'm not having any luck.
I'm seeing this guy and he invites me to all these places but I can't afford to drive to these places. I'm already stressed. I feel like if I leave it's going to take me forever to find another guy because I don't go out much and he's the only one that takes me on dates and sees me. I'm so conflicted and stressed out right now. Should I just tell him I can't see him anymore because I'm going through a rough patch in my life? He keeps inviting me to hang out with his friends but I'm also scared to meet new people because in the past I had people be rude to me. Judged me and say nasty things because I was quiet. I didn't feel welcomed and I don't like going to places where the actual person who is throwing the party doesn't invite me.
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think there is anything wrong with dating when unemployed as long is your not strictly looking for money from your dates. if your genuinely trying to meet guys you find interesting , it shouldn't matter if you have a job or not especially if your trying to find one0
Most Helpful Girl
Have you told him about the money? Part of seeing someone and growing a relationship is having these conversations. As far as meeting his friends, there are mean people in the world and there are good people in the world. The more you cut yourself off from the world, you'll become more conditioned to being alone. It's really hard but you have to go out and do things to get comfortable with people.1