My friend has been dating a guy... and she wants a hoodie or shirt or something. Apparently he smells nice. Is she supposed to ask for the hoodie or wait for him to give her one. We're both unsure lol.
Next time they're out at night make sure she's wearing something that doesn't provide much protection from the weather and get her to drop hints that she's cold, if he offers his jacket she can take that and so long as he doesn't walk her home I'm sure he'd let her take it.
For me, I told him I was cold when we were at his house one day and he came downstairs with his sweater. I put it on and then when I was about to leave, I took it off to give it back to him but he said to keep it so I did. I dont think a girl should ask for it directly because some guys just dont really like giving away their clothing lol. My suggestion is to just wait until he offers it :)
I do get it though - my clothes sometimes smell like my boyfriend after I've seen him and I have in the past cuddled the top I was wearing that day at night just because it reminded me of him.
It would be nice to have a jacket of his really - He has this black and blue Lonsdale one I like, it suits him but he's planning on getting rid of it for a new one soon to my disappointment. He let me wear it for a bit once before, just told me to put it on and was like
"It smells like me, mind" (as if I care, that's what I want lol)
but then of course I had to give it back before he went home. When he said he was getting a new jacket soon, he told me he'd probably just chuck the black and blue one on the floor or something but did mention something about giving it to me though I wasn't sure if he was joking or not. Another time he was trying to get me to twerk for him (I told a story of how I hurt my lower back practicing at home for fun once) and was trying to make a deal with me. He was like "Uhh, you want another pic of me?" "Nooo" "You want my jacket?" "Not was I was thinking but hmm.." I didn't really agree though, I can't remember what exactly I did want at the time now.
I'd have to wait until he's finished with it if he did let me have it. I think he only offered because I have before expressed liking that jacket, plus he is getting a new one soon anyway so perhaps mention about really liking a jacket of his or if he has any he doesn't want just because she wants one to remind her of him? He's not going to know unless she says something.
I used to just sit and hope my boyfriend knew what I wanted but he can't read my mind, plus he has ADHD and learning disabilities so that's going to make things more difficult. I just try and tell him now, even if I am a bit embarrassed and he's usually non-judgemental and tries to do what he can to make me happy -
I expressed one of the things that bothered me was that I'd like to talk on Skype or Fb call more (since we did this a lot last year even when we were just friends and I miss it), so he fb called me a little later that day and when I saw him yesterday he offered to Skype or fb call me today.
Like my auntie always used to say "Don't ask, don't get".
Maybe if you "forget" to bring a jacket/hoodie with you one day and it's kind of cold, you could tell him and he would most likely give you his hoodie. Then ask if you can borrow it for a little longer and he probably will think you look cute in it and let you keep it if you hint to him that you want it. :)
When I first started dating my man, I was round his and saw he had a band hoody that I had a mutual liking for (Thrasher :P), so I asked him if I could wear it, initially he said no but the next time I come round I just put it on and walked downstairs to him and he laughed. I've had it ever since. :)
Ask to borrow his hoodie, pretty sure he will be alright :)
Wtf don't ask for it! Don't take their hoodies!!! Omfg my brother stole my favorite hoodie and wore it and then his girlfriend took it! I'm still so mad at that it was my favorite hoodie and now this girl has it forever! It wasn't even his! So fucking annoying man just let your guys keep their hoodies damn!
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