I'm terrified of dating men. I have never dated a guy before and I'm trying to become more confident before I even jump in the lake.
The real problem is the fact that I'm scared of being used. I keep seeing men who see themselves as "the shit" and they feel they can have any women they please even if they are married or in a long term relationship.
I'm terrified of being cheated on. The whole thought of infidelity is saddening and gross, but men still do it. I understand women do it, but it's a well known fact men cheat more.
Or maybe it's the fact that I've seen my model-like relatives have relationships that went horrible. They cheated, and didn't know until months later.
So, my question... Why do men cheat? And is it inevitable to have a man just get bored of you?
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Hey I fell yah! I was the opposite and couldn't wait to come to know love because I thought women were just the best things ever... Angels! Anything that went wrong in relationships, I usually could find fault with there guys.
Until I had my heart ripped out, stomped on, returned and then falcon punched out, by the girl who I thought would never/could never do this to me.
Loves a gamble. Datings a gamble. You can find a guy that, on paper, seems like the best guy to you... and for awhile he treats you like a queen, the only girl in the world, until he doesn't for whatever reason.
-sex gets stale
- he loses his job
- his job is stressful
- you get irritated at his new friends
- you don't approve of his new habit
- you gain weight in the wrong areas
- you get a guy friend
These are all factors that are hard to control in life as the future happens, and a great partner can be affected by outside events that make them want to go elsewhere... no fault of your own at all.
Long story LONG lol sorry... but it's just taking a chance. You can be as confident as ever and you still will feel the effects of losing a lover for whatever reason as if someone shot u with an arrow to the heart.0