Help me crack the code.
I had a first date with an expat korean guy. I am 28. He is 38. He is very well educated, speak English fluently, very good career, senior director in branch company in Indonesia. I found him humble, polite, and intelligent! I love how he treated the way he talked.
Throughout the date, we had a nice conversation, the topic about work travel food etc. He never talked about sex thing at all.
He never looked down on me even when i dont know much, like general knowledge. He just happily explained to me patiently. He talked quite a lot during our date.
However, he really often touched me, such as my hands, hand ankle, both arms, my upper back, give some quick "unintentional" touches or rubs many times. He gave his palm when we talked about my cold hands, he says if i feel cold i can hold his hands, but in a very gentle and elegant way. There are more than 15 times of touch in total.
I caught him staring at me with a bright and warm smile for 3-4 seconds or more, several times. I tried my best to keep eye contact. Quite hard.
So do u think a guy will do all of those touches and with that attitude, even when he does NOT find a woman attractive to him? Or that is just his habit?
Most Helpful Guy
I frequently, purposely, touch women I am on a date with, for several reasons.
I help her sit, and adjust the chair, and that sometimes involves an unintentional touch, or maybe intentional, if I hand her the napkin, and our hands touch.
I take her hand, when she is stepping over something like a curb, or on stairs, wearing heals.
I sometimes put my arm around her, as I open the door to some place, and 'guide' her in.
If I am on a date, I like her, and I want her to feel comfortable, but also know that I have some feelings for her, but won't force anything, being casual, non-invasive with the casual touches. Until she decides. . .
Most Helpful Girl
I think he is attracted to you and he was touchy with you on purpose.0