I keep seeing guys on here complain about women and how all they need to do is stand in one place and men will flock to them, but is it really that simple? I don't understand how any heterosexual person could become so bitter and hateful toward the opposite sex and still claim to be straight.
I love and value the men in my life, on average I like men more than women. Every crush I've ever had I've approached the guy and yeah because of it I've faced rejection. My boyfriend is my first and I'm the one who approached him. I'm the one who asked him out.
There's plenty of women who approach men and get rejected all the same. Do people really think all women do absolutely nothing at all in terms of dating?
Most Helpful Guy
It is very very rare for a woman to approach a man simply because most women believe in gender roles and want a dominant male. With women becoming more confident in themselves (thanks to feminism (the real one not the man hating one)) more men are feeling intimidated by the woman's success. This increases introversion in men and the desire to be approached. However women still want gender roles even though they're on equal footing with men which gives them the advantage.
A lot of men become bitter misogynists and never get laid while the rest work on themselves and try to get women since a woman approaching them is as likely as seeing an old 1920s car on the road. It's possible I've seen those cars and I've been approached a few times but it's so rare it's ridiculous.4
Most Helpful Girl
I don't really get it either. I have never been in a relationship. Any time I have ever approached a guy, he has rejected me. No guy has ever asked me out. I am almost 30. I do not hate men at all. At work, the majority of people I work with are men and I get along great with them. I really don't hate anybody. At times yes I do get sad and lonely, and I do get terrified that I am going to be alone forever. However, I don't get bitter over it. I just let myself have those pity days sometimes (Netflix and gorge myself with chocolate) and then I move on and try to have fun. This summer I've filled it with a lot of fun. I went sky-diving a month ago. I do everything I can to keep busy and have fun. I work hard and save a lot of money. I am looking to buy my condo within a year.
So I've never really understood some guys when they get so angry or hate women. It actually shocks me to see guys in their early 20s with that attitude because they are still so young. I'm approaching 30 and I don't feel that way. Maybe I will in ten or so years, but right now I am still okay. I already have two cats, so you never know, I might go down the crazy cat lady route. :)3