This guy was so hot but he kept saying I was young and a child because I am 23 and he is 27. He said he will take me to chuck e cheese. He kept making comments as if I was dumb and he doesn't know anything about me. I didn't go out to be judged it sucked. I wish I stood up for myself more. I still think about him smh. I guess I wish it ended up differently. I wasn't expecting him to be rude and belittling me and arrogant. I don't know why I still think about him weeks later. I would love to run into him looking hot lol
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Maybe he's on your mind for a different reason besides being a love interest. Maybe by him being so blunt and stating those immature things on your date, he could have said something that triggered a thought or an emotion within you and made you realize something about yourself? Or rethink something? Maybe you're attracted to his ability to say whatever he thinks?
It could be his appearance that stuck with you, and makes you think about him often but it's your mind. If you're thinking about him a while after, there is a reason for that. Either emotional, physical or something you've found you may have liked in him? Maybe it's like a love-hate contradiction going on in your mind?
Who knows. But if it's bothering you, try to figure it out the best you can. Sometimes we don't realize why things are on our minds until we take a step back and ask ourselves what did I like/ what do I feel about the situation?1
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