So say you get asked out in a pleasant way. They weren't acting like a jerk or a creep they just asked you out in a very modest way. But you're just not into them. You reject them. Do you think they're a loser and that's partly why you rejected them and you're thinking about it when doing it or are you just not into them and you feel sad for having to reject them. Not necessarily guilt but just that they made the effort for nothing.
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I personally feel bad when i have to turn someone down for a date, it's not got to do with the fact that they're a loser or some other stupid reason that's just shallow judgment talking. I would say it's probably because I don't feel the same way about them and it would be wrong to lead them on!0