We were talking with one of my boyfriends friends and talking about how he needed to find a girl and out of nowhere my boyfriend says "hey she's got a friend named Carli and dude she's SEXY" I felt so put down and hurt that he would say this in front of me. I didn't cause a scene because his friend was there but it really made me feel weird about him and disrespected. Girls and guys should I feel so bad about this?
Most Helpful Guy
Are you freaking serious? Lol come on! Be real. It's a good thing you didn't create a scene cause you would have looked like a crazy bitch. Seriously, a fight about that would be enough for any guy to reconsider being with you. If you go crazy for such a small thing then you must go crazy all the time for other equally banal things. Your jealousy is up there. You need to realize that you are not the only girl in the world and that they don't suddenly stop being sexy just cause your boyfriend is with you.3
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Most Helpful Girl
Wow! Have mouth insert foot here! I'd have been like WTF? He should have been more sensitive. I imagine he's just trying to talk up another girl for the sole purpose of helping his friend. I'd rather hear him say she's really nice or has a great personality but to get the friends interest in her, maybe he needed to use guy talk.(devils advocate) It would've been smarter to keep that "sexy" part out in your presence. I think you should ask his real views on your friend Carli or the next time you are all together with her it may get awkward. hopefully he can dig his way out of this.1